Guide to Successful Booty Calls

Published On February 9, 2017 | By Jacks Jose | Dating Tips

Hotline Bling! Also known as Booty Call. Sometimes in the middle of the night, you sometimes get an itch that needs scratching by someone other than yourself. Even with the technical advancement of dating apps like Tinder, Grindr, and Her, it can still be difficult to find a last minute booty call. Sure you may be able to meet them through the app and share a few drinks but actually taking them to bed can still be a challenge. You need to be able to woo them with your charm and personality to actually close the deal, especially for a late night booty call at 2am.

Making Booty Calls with Happy Endings

  • Avoid contacting someone you have feelings for because it will end badly for you if he/she is only in it for the sex and nothing else. And vice versa. Leading them on just so you can get off is mean and selfish, unless you want to be known as the asshole. So stay away from your exes and potential long term lovers for booty calls. They may be sexy girls and boys that you’re already comfortable with but just stay away; it’s for the best.
  • Only contact those who you’ve already talked to before or met at least once. Don’t be the stranger who calls up a random potential “mate” and expect they’ll show up. For all they know, you’re either a stalker or a creep. So only if you’ve already started a dialogue with that person, don’t call them in the middle of the night asking “Let’s have sex”.
  • While you’re chatting with your potential booty call during your first initial conversations, try to include the idea of sex in a flirty way before your urge actually takes over you at 1 am in the morning. During your conversations, you can bring up the fact that you’re not looking for a relationship but you still want some mind blowing sex once in a while. This can plant the seeds of future booty call potential with that person.
  • When your booty call shows up, don’t talk about your other hook-ups or brag about how great you are in the bedroom. It’s tacky and annoying. And they may not come back after that booty call.
  • Don’t contact them the next day to show your appreciation or disdain about the hook-up. This may deter them from wanting to answer your call again. Although a quick text that simply reads “Thanks for last night” should do.
  • Make sure a booty call is really a booty call. Don’t make it sound like you’ve been planning it for a while either. Booty calls are all about the spur of the moment sudden urge to get sexual relief with someone else. If you take that away, the excitement of the entire thing will be lost.

If you intend to make booty calls every few days or every week, make sure to keep it casual. Stay in touch with your booty calls so you’re ever present in their minds. They’ll even call you in the middle of the night to scratch an itch. It’s a win-win situation. Just remember to not get emotionally attached to them. If you feel like your heart is starting to flutter or vice versa, back away unless the feeling is mutual. You don’t want to be breaking people’s hearts, even worse, your own. After all, booty calls are supposed to be fun for everyone involved!

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